You know, there is a very big difference between 'having
realistic expectations' and 'settling for
rubbish'. 
Women who got themselves pregnant by the Kuta cowboys fall into
the latter category.
Like this 'Sandra' woman.... I don't sympathise with her at all.
As much as she was being taken advantage of, well, she was pretty
much asking for it. Not to say that the fella wasn't a blooming
b*stard, of course, but she only has herself to blame for her
predicament.
Her experience was entirely consensual and there was no coercion
involved. In the end, she was extremely naive to have settled for
rubbish, and now she has to bear the consequences of her
actions.
x2. I so agree with you Fudge.
Yeah and also this article has nothing to do with SG women
expectations. I mean if you can't manage it, there are a lot of
options open you know.